Teen dating and breakups
The problem with that mindset is that it assumes he’s doing these things specifically to get a reaction out of you.
Click here to take our quick (and shockingly accurate) “Is He Selfish” Quiz right now and find out if he’s really selfish…
If he comes off as being a massive jerk to you after breaking up – chances are it was really rough on him.
The more of a jerk it seems like he’s being, the worse he’s feeling about the breakup.
When you realize that it’s not about you, you can approach from a position of sympathy – and sidestep 99% of their anger. If he seems like he’s being a huge jerk to you – it’s about what’s going on with him, not about you.
When you realize that, you can rise above it and not let it affect you – rather than playing back into it and making yourself feel horrible.