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After you heard their opinion once, that was enough.
Now you’re starting to resent them saying anything to you…
Now I only have limited information, but in past situations like this women have told me it stems from the fear that he might have feelings for her or that he’s not totally over her.
Fear that she might do something to screw up your relationship with him.
but other times they were absolutely, positively wrong.
But I can tell you, every time that someone has pressured me by telling me their opinion of someone more than once, I started to resent them for making the complaint. Because when they tell me more than once that they don’t agree with my relationship with a person, they’re disrespecting me.
The answer will determine whether the relationship deepens or ends.
My feeling these days is that if your relationship is good in the moments that you’re with the person, it’s good. And most importantly, I stopped interpreting someone else’s actions as a reflection of me.
Worrying about what they could do just throws away any chance for enjoying your own life. Anyway, I’m just sharing how I felt when I was in this sort of situation.
I’m not saying flat out ignore it (though that’s not entirely a bad idea). I can tell you that when I was on the receiving end of this sort of thing, I was not graceful about it. But then it would eat away at me because, in my mind, there is nothing worse than being played for a fool.
But getting worked up about it will most likely lead you to a bad place… Years ago, I would be dating a girl and she would be carrying on conversations with an ex because he was a friend. It was my fear, but I would run it around in my head, again and again until it became this “monster” of a thought.
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If I were in your situation, I would do whatever I could to avoid the subject of this ex-girlfriend altogether.