Dating within your church
We recently had an awful experience where an engaged couple ended their relationship. It can even, in some very sad cases, end in people leaving the church.It was painful for many reasons that I can’t go into here, but it also saw great heartbreak in our whole church. It’s important, then, to remember that dating within the church is not just about you.As partners in the same church you have very specific responsibilities towards one another and responsibilities together for the rest of your church.Remember that after this date you will still have responsibility for their growth.The truth is, being a guardian of a heart is God’s job.is to honor God, be respectful to her, and be brutally honest about when your feelings are casual and when they’re not.
How about we just drop that and form a new message: Pursue God and quit lying to women to fulfill your desires for emotional and physical intimacy. Message: Romantic relationships should be walking toward marriage.Going to the same church doesn’t mean you automatically know each other, or automatically fit well together.Going to the same church and having a terrible break-up will mean trouble for your fellowship. This is the principle that I have to stress the most.But when you fellowship in the same assembly, when you share the same friends, and attend the same events it can be very difficult.I can speak from real experience here, both as a pastor and as a former serial dater.