Dating someone emotionally unavailable
Support yourself with compassion self-talk and practice.
Men who work from a place that it’s all about their needs, wants, and feelings even in relation to others are unavailable.
One of life’s interesting phenomenon is that we often reject the very thing we seek.
If you do this, you know become self-absorbed with your needs, feelings, wants, and agenda in relation to another person.
What we have to accept is that no one can lead you to emotional availability not even someone you are truly in love with.
You were born with it, then life happened, and you developed coping strategies.
Being emotionally available is not that easy for any of us.
And for a man in a society where we give our such mixed messages, it’s no surprise that both the people asking men to be emotionally available and the men who are trying to achieve it, are confused.