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But if anyone does not possess the [Holy] Spirit of Christ, he is none of His [he does not belong to Christ, is not truly a child of God]. If you are truly His son or His daughter you lay down your life and your desires and accept His will and His desires. God has a plan for you that He started before the world began and it will go on for eternity.Ephesians 4:4-5 4 Even as [in His love] He chose us [actually picked us out for Himself as His own] in Christ before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy (consecrated and set apart for Him) and blameless in His sight, even above reproach, before Him in love.Romans 8:5 For those who are according to the flesh and are controlled by its unholy desires set their minds on and pursue those things which gratify the flesh, but those who are according to the Spirit and are controlled by the desires of the Spirit set their minds on and seek those things which gratify the [Holy] Spirit.Romans 8:6 Now the mind of the flesh [which is sense and reason without the Holy Spirit] is death [death that comprises all the miseries arising from sin, both here and hereafter].They serve as an example of those who suffer the punishment of eternal fire. Jesus did not go to the cross because He felt like it.He went because it was the Father's will; He went because He loved us.Relationships, jobs, schooling, He knows the full plan, not you.His will is that His sons and daughters meet and form Godly relationships and Godly marriages. Most people find a spouse by playing a selfish form of spin the bottle and the result is broken relationships with all the hurt and pain, and that goes for the married and unmarried.
A Godly husband protects his wife; a Godly man protects his sister.
He does not take his sister out and then make out with her. Do you want a man who is willing to break his vow before Almighty God because he is more interested in a cop and feel?
What makes you think all his great, loving statements and vows to you are true?
You go looking for what your limited human understanding and flesh wants and thinks will make you happy. He knows what you will be like one, five, ten, twenty years from now.
You do not, and He knows His plan and what will make you truly happy.